Connect with us

Travel Tips

7 Challenges You Face While Traveling With Partner

Avatar of Cole Burmester

Published

on

word image

Doing things together with your partner is an amazing way to rediscover yourselves and get to understand each other more. However, sometimes, there happen to be quite a few disagreements based on preferences and convenience. But have you thought what could happen when you travel with your significant other? Will it be an amazing adventure or a nightmare?

To clear the air, traveling together can be wonderful for both of you. Like any other day you do things together, you can come across various challenges during the trip. That will, however, not make the trip a nightmare. Things you can solve together can help you build stronger bonds in your relationship. If you have never traveled with your lover before, you should at least try it.

These are seven of the most common challenges you can expect while on a trip with your partner.

1. Differences in Handling Travel Inconveniences

While planning a trip together, you will have an itinerary of favorite places to visit and things to do there. When the day arrives, things do change. Sometimes, you are forced to change direction or opt for a different activity. That can be an easy decision if you are traveling alone. But things are very different if you are out with your partner.

Natural conditions, regulations, and personal inadequacies can hinder you from achieving all that you planned for the trip. While one can be okay with anything that comes and enjoy the trip, the other will be wondering why they ever left home. For them, changed schedules, timelines, and places of interest is a complete ruin on their journey.

To avoid stress, you should discuss from home about the expectations, realities, and occurrences that can change the course of the trip. Tell your partner that things can change along the trip. Let them understand that it is okay if the planned events are canceled as long as you can do other things together.

For example, when you find that the number of people attending an activity is restricted (especially during the present challenge around the world), you can have a private picnic in the park and enjoy your moments together.

2. How You Spend Your Vacation

While at home, both of you wake up before 4 am to grab a mug of coffee and begin your daily routines. Both of you are busy trying to make something to sustain you. Waking up early and sleeping late is the order of the day. Nobody wants to be fired for sleeping till 8 am or missing the train to the office.

Life during a vacation is pretty much different. No alarm clock, no train to catch, no pressing duties. It is time to relax, have fun, and explore. However, two people cannot have the same mindset. One will want to wake up early and prepare for the day’s activities. The other one will want to spend more time sleeping to compensate for the time they don’t get enough sleep.

The difference here can bring a misunderstanding that can make the trip awful if you end up in an argument. Knowing what you are after before leaving is essential. Before you set out on a trip, agree on the various activities that you can participate in. If you want to spend more time sleeping, choose activities that you can attend at a convenient time and do not close too early. You can also decide to entertain yourselves in the room instead of spending long hours at cinemas and clubs after dusk.

3. It Might Be Irritating to Be Together

word image 1

This might be the worst part to read in this piece. You have been spending most of your time at your workplace and meet your partner in the evenings. You talk for a short time and sleep, waiting for another tedious day. That is how time flies, and you rarely recognize each other’s flaws. Maybe only some small disagreements that come along the things you use at home.

Traveling together is a completely different story. You are going to spend time with your spouse 24 hours a day, all the days until you return from the vacation. I can only imagine how much you are going to learn some flaws about them, which have been a secret all along. The problem is not knowing that your spouse can be annoying. Standing there and watching them get into your nerves is the uphill task.

Tolerance is a policy that can help both of you to stay together and enjoy the vacation. However, you should freely express to each other and draw clear lines about what you do not like so that your partner can watch his or her steps. In the same way, you may want to sacrifice a few things to offend your partner.

4. Not Having Same Interests

If you have never traveled with others before, you are going to be surprised. If you were thinking that traveling as a team or with your partner will be the most amazing adventure doing everything together, you will discover that there is a big difference between expectations and reality. You may have very many things in common, but when it comes to favorite activities, you are far apart.

While you may love surfing, your partner would be so much into hiking. These two adventures take place in different environments, and you cannot participate together and at the same time. That means that sometimes you will be far away from each other for most of the day.

While planning your adventure trip, you should table each activity you are interested in. If your interests differ so much, you may want to rethink the trip. Either you decide to engage in the other’s activities to learn a new adventure or you only opt to attend events that both of you have interest in.

5. Unpreparedness for the Trip

Sometimes it is wonderful to plan a surprise for your partner. It is one of the best ways to spice up a relationship or friendship. However, some surprises may not be received with gladness. Travel is one area where you need to plan well in advance and avoid so many inconveniences during the trip.

If you tell your partner that you are going on a trip in three days after booking everything, you may be turned down and lose your money. Your friend needs to prepare as much as possible for the trip. They need time to get the best gear they need on the trip and plan on rescheduling their duties so that they have enough time to travel with you. Make sure you prepare them early enough, maybe two or three months in advance.

6. Breaking the Budget

word image 2

Traveling is associated with many expenses. If you are not careful, you can spend far too much on your credit card on a trip. With so many amazing events and activities and an unending list of to see, you can easily forget how much you are supposed to spend in various parts of the world.

Traveling with a partner will not be cheaper. You might want to impress her or him by buying a gift during the trip. One problem with buying items abroad is that you will encounter higher prices because the sellers know that tourists have some money to spend. Going to the market places in the city might not be a good idea either. While you can get more affordable items, you may end up in the hands of pick-pockets.

While you may want to spend on some necessary items and entertainment, you should be aware of the budget you have so that you do not spend beyond the limits. Credit cards can help you pay for as many items as you may want, but remember that they charge a high interest rate and pay them as soon as possible. Such spending habits can put you in a loop of debts and financial constrictions.

Create a clear budget of all the things you are going to spend while on the trip, then set apart some allowance for emergencies. That will help you to restrain yourself from spending way too much. Remember to walk with your to-do list to avoid unnecessary expenses on things you never anticipated. Carry all the gear you need on the trip on the roof rack to avoid buying or hiring things along the way.

7. Spending Alone Time

It is normal to wake up feeling abnormal. Moods do change due to various reasons, some of which are unexplainable. That is when you feel like keeping to yourself and spending your time alone doing nothing. Maybe a good rest and diet can help you to recover and get the vibes you need to take on another adventure.

Traveling with a team or friend can be inconvenient because such moments can ruin team experiences. Going out without the moods will be a waste of time. At the same time, your partner may not want to do things alone when you planned to be together. It is essential to avoid booking for adventures in advance. Only engage in something when you feel okay for the same.

Summing Up

Traveling can be an awesome experience. At the same time, however, you should expect some inconveniences when traveling with a partner. Fortunately, everything has a solution. The aim of traveling together is to spend time together and get the most out of your adventures. When challenges emerge, you can solve them and continue with the plans.

Cole is one half of New Zealand's leading adventure travel blogging couple who have been wearing out their jandals around the world since 2009. He loves any adventure activities and anything to do with the water whether it is Surfing, Diving, Swimming, Snorkeling or just lounging nearby on the beach. You can follow Cole on Google+. Or consider following us via RSS Feed, Twitter, Facebook and subscribe to our Newsletter.

Continue Reading
Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Travel Tips

Get Peace of Mind When You Pre-Book Transportation

Avatar of Warrren Hamels

Published

on

pexels sourav mishra 1309644

Traveling is extremely fun, right? It helps you go to different destinations and enables you to have exposure to new people, cultures, and ideas. Many people travel with others so they can genuinely get a taste of life and share their experiences in real time with other people.

Remember that life is all about the experiences that you have and the memories that you make as these provide you with a life that is well lived.

Indeed, remember that your travel experiences, and other memories that you make are essential aspects of life because it gives your life a bit more flavor. You can feel a certain thrill when you are transferring from one airport to the other. It can give you joy because you are moving and being more free instead of being confined to one location.

Now, when it comes to a life well-lived, it certainly takes some effort. Most individuals find that they must be intentional about what they are trying to do to have the most opportunities in life.

This is certainly true for the traveler. The best travelers know that traveling is far from easy if you do not have the right amount of preparation.

Remember that it takes quite a bit of work to have a wonderful trip. It can be fun to have surprises, but it is best to have pleasant surprises. Here is what you need to know to have a pleasant trip.

Pre-Book a Transfer From Any Spanish Airport

If you find yourself in Spain, then you would want to make sure that you utilize the right modes of transportation to make sure that you get to your destination with ease. Thankfully, the beautiful country has great service providers that will make your travel life easier in this regard.

Remember that effective service providers will provide a taxi or a minibus. These service options are useful because they can cater to your various needs. For instance, if you have a large party, a minibus would be wonderful. If you have a small group of people, then a simple taxi would suffice.

These different options enable you to meet your needs regardless of the size of your overall party.

More Benefits in Pre-Booking Your Transfers

There are other benefits to pre-booking your airport transfers. Whether you are going to Barcelona City or to Madrid City, it is important to note the various benefits of working with the right transportation firm.

Now that you are aware of the options that you can choose with preeminent services, other benefits include locking in a price, minimizing wait times at the airport, and having a pleasant experience with a wonderful driver.

Instead of having to worry about the price and about cancellation options, or if someone will show up on time, working with a wonderful firm like Solhop enables you to have total peace of mind when it comes to your transfers.

You can also ensure that you will drive in style with the options available to you from the different cars on offer.

fasyah halim 6LRq8IyhfJo unsplash

Have Fun On Your Trip

Now that you have your transportation squared away, remember that you are on a trip and remember to have fun. Whether you are traveling from the United States of America or from other places in Europe, you can be sure to have a bit of fun in Spain!

 

Continue Reading

Europe

Travel Tip: Train to Pisa from Florence

Whether you spend a half-day or full day in Pisa, we recommend that you Train to Pisa from Florence. It’s the fastest and cheapest way to get there.

Avatar of Cole Burmester

Published

on

train to pisa

Traveling by train is one of the best ways to see the beautiful countryside of Italy. The train from Florence to Pisa takes about an hour, and the journey is stunning. The route takes you past vineyards and medieval villages, through tunnels and over bridges, with breathtaking views of the Tuscan hillsides. You can even see the Leaning Tower of Pisa as the train approaches the station.

Woman traveling by train looking out of window

Upon arrival in Pisa, you can explore the historic center and visit the famous cathedral, before enjoying a leisurely lunch overlooking the River Arno. With its stunning scenery and convenient location, a train trip from Florence to Pisa is a great way to spend a day in Italy.

Leaning tower of Pisa, HDR, Italy

How to get to Pisa from Florence

You have a couple of different options for your own half-day trip to Pisa from Florence depending on how you like to travel. But if you are like us and enjoy travelling around Italy by public transport, then you will definitely want to train to Pisa from Florence.

Train to Pisa from Florence

Florence and Pisa are less than 100 km apart and the easiest way is to train to Pisa from Florence. The entire trip one-way takes approximately an hour depending on your route with no transfers.

Trains leave from Florence S.M.Novella for Pisa Centrale a few times every hour. The closest train station to the leaning tower of Pisa is Pisa San Rossore, but it’s not worth the extra time or transfer required. Pisa itself is small and it takes less than 30 minutes to walk to the leaning tower from Pisa Centrale.

Plus you get to explore more of the city such as the River Arno lined with beautiful stately homes.

Pisa River, train from pisa to florence

If you want to book online then a one-way ticket by train to Pisa from Florence will cost from €7.80 (US$10.40) in 2nd class. It is important to make sure that when you are searching online via the Italian train booking site, Trenitalia, you search for “Firenze” rather than Florence.

The train schedules are very easy to understand so we recommend booking your ticket from the self-service machines on the train platform. The return journey is just as easy in reverse. Just watch that you don’t miss the last train around 10pm most days and carry cash with you for the ticket.

Finally, validate your ticket before boarding the train. We forgot a couple of times but used the typical “I’m a stupid tourist” line to get out of any fines.

Bus to Pisa from Florence

Another option is to catch the bus to Pisa from Florence.

There are two main bus companies, Terravision and Autostradale, run regular buses to and from Pisa Airport and Florence Airport into the Florence city centre, they don’t actually go into Pisa itself. The train to Pisa from Florence is so reliable, fast, and cheap, that you may not want to consider this option.

However, there are some advantages to taking the bus. You will see a lot more scenery from the window of the bus, and it’s definitely cheaper; sometimes you can find fares as low as 4 Euros, especially on Fridays.

Travel Guide to visiting Pisa from Florence

Driving to Pisa from Florence

If you have hired a car or scooter in Tuscany then you might look at driving to Pisa from Florence. However, even though the distance is less than 100km, the trip will still take approximately 1 hour.

Aside from the fact that the train to Pisa from Florence typically takes less time than driving, you also have to avoid the crazy Italian drivers. Not to mention trying to find a carpark in two of the most popular cities in Italy. Impossible.

Travel to Pisa from Florence by train, Leaning tower of Pisa HDR

Guided Tour to Pisa from Florence

If you have been enjoying the sunset in Florence and all the city has to offer then you might want to take in a guided tour to Pisa from Florence. Not only do you get a great guide to learn all about the history of the area, you also don’t have to worry about getting to Pisa from Florence.

You might want to check out this guided tour around Pisa or get a little bit more adventurous and try out a segway tour in Pisa. Perfect for the family and it will keep the kids entertained between stops.

If you have a whole day, and haven’t managed to fit in a hike around Cinque Terre, then we recommend looking into the Pisa and Cinque Terre day tour. Lasting roughly 12 hours, you will travel from Florence to Cinque Terre, with a 2 hour stop in Pisa to see all the main sights.

We also reckon guides help you get the best photos, as they have seen all the poses.

Adela funny jumping Pisa

Tell us below if you have taken any funny photos in Pisa!

Continue Reading

Travel Tips

Everything You Need To Know Before Buying A Yacht

Avatar of Warrren Hamels

Published

on

word image 10732 1

Spending time on a yacht is a great way to relax. You can cruise, do water sports, try your luck in fishing, or you can even entertain guests on your yacht. However, a yacht is still a significant investment, so you must learn as much as possible before buying one.

If you are pondering buying a yacht, there are several things that you need to know. You should ask yourself what type of yacht you want to buy and what type best suits your needs.

Aside from this, you also need to determine your budget for purchasing a yacht. Boating safety courses and trial runs are also essential to ensure your safety while on your chosen yacht.

What Do You Want In A Yacht?

 

When buying a yacht, you must ask yourself, “What do I want in a yacht?” Do you want the yacht to be big? Do you want to use the yacht for fishing?

Answering the questions about the yacht you want can help you determine your priorities in buying a yacht. Take, for example, if you want to utilize your yacht for watersports. Certain types of yachts cater to watersports, like wakeboarding and wake surfing.

Another popular way to spend time on your yacht is an overnight cruise. If you want to do this, you should consider the size of the yacht you want to buy. Can it accommodate passengers sleeping onboard?

Questions like these can help determine if you need different amenities in a yacht, like cabins, cooktops, and relaxation areas.

How Much is Your Budget?

Now that you have determined what you seek in a yacht, it is crucial to set a comfortable price for your pockets. When buying a yacht, you can get carried away by all the types and models available.

It might be tempting to go above your budget when buying a yacht, especially when so many options are available. However, it is vital to research yacht prices on manufacturer websites, as well as sites of brokers and dealers.

After all, it is necessary to keep the costs of maintaining a yacht in mind. Some costs of owning a yacht include insurance, repairs, fuel, and general upkeep.

Determining your budget for the yacht and sticking to it can make the most out of your yacht purchase.

Where Do You Buy A Yacht?

Since a yacht is a significant investment, going to a trusted and reliable dealer is your best bet. You can visit websites or written material to gather information about a prospective dealer.

Seasoned dealers need to know your lifestyle to determine what type of yacht suits you best. They can ask questions about your boating preferences, whom you boat with, and other similar queries. They use this information to match you to the yacht that best fulfills your needs at the right price.

Should You Try the Yacht Before You Buy It?

word image 10732 2

Try and test the yacht that piques your interest as much as possible. If you know a yacht owner with a model you are interested in, you could ask to check the yacht out. Doing this helps you assess the amenities and features of the yacht before you make the big purchase.

Boat shows, if available, are also good ways to see and assess the yacht of your choice. Well-known brands do these shows, allowing you to see and experience the yacht.

What About Your Safety?

Some places require a recreational boat license for you to sail on your yacht. However, you can easily avail classes to sharpen your boating skills. These can help you learn how to sail on a boat and some basic safety measures while on your yacht.

You can look for information on the official website of your local or national maritime safety authority.

How Do You Buy A Yacht?

Buying a yacht might seem like a long, detailed process, but it is pretty straightforward. First, you need to find out what you want in a yacht. In other words, determine your purpose for buying a yacht.

The next step is to set a clear budget and the amenities and size of the yacht you want to buy.

Conclusion

Sailing on a yacht is not a simple task, so acquire all the necessary documents to operate a yacht. The necessary paperwork can include a boating license, boating safety courses, and other relevant documents.

Test the yacht before you commit to it, and make sure that you are comfortable with it before purchasing it. You can attend boat shows and dealer demos or ask someone with a similar yacht to let you assess their yacht.

Lastly, find a yacht dealer that wants the best for you. Finding the best dealer can make your yacht buying process much more manageable. Reliable dealers will keep your budget and goals in mind while matching you to the yacht of your dreams!

Continue Reading

Meet Cole and Adela

Cole and AdelaWe have been wearing out our jandals (Kiwi for flip-flops) on our travel adventures around the world since 2009. We think our blog is thought provoking and a little witty. But we have been proven wrong before. Find out more about us here...

New on Four Jandals

What Are You Looking For?

Subscribe

See Our Favorite Topics