When you are travelling as a couple it is really important to remember to keep romance alive. These tips for couples travel will hopefully help.
You have to take great care to not only keep each other happy but also to celebrate special events such as anniversaries and other romantic moments in your lives.
Because travelling can take it’s toll on even the strongest relationships.
A lack of sleep while crossing different time zones will leave nerves frayed. While the stress of navigating your way around a foreign country will rattle tensions further. And to top it off you will be in each others faces through the good times and the bad 24/7.
Considering that with most budget travel, your savings will not usually allow for extra expenses such as romantic dinners which can help to recharge those relationship batteries. Instead you will find yourself arguing over whose turn it is to cook the spaghetti on toast!
With Valentines Day nearly upon us it might be worthwhile sharing some of our own little secrets of how we travel as a couple.
So how do we find the energy while on the road keep from tearing each others heads off every second day?
Think outside the box
You shouldn’t have to look very far from where you are at that moment to gain just a little bit of inspiration. Travelling is romantic in it’s very nature!
Sure you may not be in one of the most romantic cities of the world like Paris or having an epic Hawaii holiday on the beach. But, you are likely to be somewhere that isn’t home! That is what makes it special.
Stop being a tourist and slow down
I don’t mean for the entire time you travel but you can definitely spare a day or even an hour to slow down. For that short period you need to stop, think and act like a local.
What do locals do to keep their romance alive wherever you are? I am sure that they don’t wake up at the crack of dawn to be the first in line at the local attractions! No, they sleep in and savour each others company. Or they just stroll hand in hand through a park.
By slowing down you will enjoy those moments of madness as you run to make your train travel trip because you know you can chill out sometime soon.
Don’t be selfish
Travelling as a couple is all about compromise. If you have chosen the last 2 places to eat at or the last activity then it is time to hand over the reins. There is nothing worse than just getting to enjoy what you want while the other grins and bears it.
Other selfishness acts can be as simple as showing a little bit of courtesy. All it may take is to help her put on her backpack after a long day of hauling it around a dusty city and the romance will be kept alive.
Don’t sweat the small stuff
You need to let the small things slide. You know that really cute chewing sound she makes when she is eating her food? Well that kind of starts to grind on your nerves when it is just the two off you.
But if you cannot learn to accept those small imperfections (and face it everyone has them and I am clearly no god myself) then the bigger worries are really going to set a wedge between you.
Travelling is all about sharing special moments together. But, and I cannot stress this enough, everyone needs space.
Whether you like to chill out by going for a run, reading your book or just pondering life’s mysteries with a beer in hand then make time for it. Just tell them upfront and trust me they will understand.
In fact they probably can’t wait to get away from you too!
We have had some epic fights on our travels and have spent whole days silently driving across America not talking to one another. Do you know how hard it is to give your significant other the silent treatment for 8 hours when they are sitting next to you in the car?!
Let me tell you, it is near on impossible.
Those times are tough but as you sit in silence you will realise just how stupid the situation is. Here you are halfway around the world from your family and you only have one other person to rely on.
When you are laughing most of the time then the small arguments will bounce right off.
Spend time with others
Human beings are social in their very nature. Why do you think girls like to sit around with other girls and talk at a million miles an hour? It’s because we crave interaction.
I am quite happy to just chill out and be quiet. Adela on the other hand loves to talk. Early on in our travels I could not figure out how she can sometimes stand my quiet moments? Then it dawned on me.
It’s because we always find the time to interact with others on the road. If you spend your whole time abroad and only talk to one another then it is going to be one helluva boring trip.
Travel is about meeting others. When you do finally get that time alone together you will relish in it!
Most couples usually have date nights when they are at home. So why not when you are travelling?
I know I said earlier that most of the time budget travel won’t allow for you to go out for romantic dinners. But who said you have to spend $200 on a meal with a bottle of wine. Instead make a picnic and go chill out on the beach for a few hours.
Or just blow that budget and splurge! While your wallet might hate you, your relationship will thank you and the romance will be kept alive.
Do you have any couples travel tips you want to share?
5 Markets in Guangzhou That You Have to Visit on Your Trip
Guangzhou is one of only a few cities in the world that offers the perfect balance of tradition and modernization. Despite being the busiest trading center of China, Guangzhou or Canton still maintains a calm pace where you’ll easily find yourself getting lost amidst temples, shops and eateries where you get to sample authentic Chinese cuisine.
But if you’re visiting Guangzhou to shop or even source products that you’d like to sell back home, you should never miss stopping by these five markets that has everything you need to satisfy your shopping cravings:
- Guangzhou Watch Market
Located in ZhanXi Lu in the Yuexiu District, the Guangzhou watch market is the largest of its kind in China and has thousands of suppliers selling every Rolex replica watches and other famous brands imitations, accessories and fittings you can think of. The market is divided into nine installments and you will see some of the top manufacturers in China selling their products here.
- Guangzhou Jewelry Markets
Whatever kind of jewelry you’re looking for, you’ll surely find it in one of the three biggest jewelry markets in Guangzhou. Taikang Square Jewelry Market sells trendy yet low-priced jewelry pieces made from different stones, metals and beads.
Xijao Jewelry Market, on the other hand, has sellers specializing in micro inlay jewelry and items that are hard to find anywhere else in Guangzhou. Of course, there’s Liwan Plaza Jewelry Market where you can find unique jewelry pieces and even have one customized just for you.
- Huimei International Clothing Market
If you’re visiting Guangzhou to not only shop for your clothes but also source products for a clothing business, then you shouldn’t miss visiting the Huimei International Clothing Market near the Guangzhou Railway Station. Here, you will find every fashionable clothing you can think of, most of which are designed in Korea, and you’ll surely have fun shopping here no matter what your budget.
- Guangzhou Baiyun World Leather Trading Center
The Guangzhou Baiyun World Leather Trading Center is a haven for bag lovers who want to get their hands on a Gucci, Chanel or Louis Vuitton bag but don’t want to pay the hefty price for it.
This market is part of the largest leather product district of Guangzhou and has shops specializing in replica bags from top designer brands. You can also find replicas of designer shirts, cuff links, scarves and shoes in some of the shops in the area.
- Guangzhou Toy and Stationery Markets
To complete your shopping excursion to Guangzhou, you have to visit its toy and stationery markets that offer all kinds of toys and stationery products that will make for perfect gifts for your loved ones back home.
Stop by the Yide Toys & Gifts Wholesale Center where you can easily spend a day exploring the 12 shopping malls in the area. The 100,000-square meter Guangzhou International Toys & Gifts Center is also another must-visit place where you can shop for all kinds of toys, handicrafts, stationery and gifts.
Now, are you ready to go shopping in Guangzhou? Enjoy it the fullest!
5 Ways You Can Use CBD to Fight Travel Stress
If you are a frequent traveler, then the term “travel stress” would be familiar to the point of being painful.
And if you are not familiar with the term, then the following description would have you stand right along with those who are.
Travel stress could arise from frequent traveling, or even through a single flight or road trip. It often causes your mind as well as your body to feel extremely tired. It could also contribute to more serious issues such as anxiety or depression.
All in all, stress is never a good feeling to endure or live with. But it gets especially crucial to alleviate it when you experience it during your travels. Since your therapist is not available in another town and your closest friends aren’t usually with you, it falls upon you to take care of, well, you.
Thankfully, natural substances such as cannabidiol or CBD can help you in a situation where you cannot find support anywhere. As an organic compound, products from cannabidiol could go a long way into helping you alleviate stress.
To explain this further, here are 5 ways you can use cannabidiol to fight travel stress.
Have It In Desserts
Using cannabidiol products such as oil or concentrate, you could easily transform any snack into a promise of a relaxing future. You don’t even have to cook the dessert yourself. Simply order room service. Then, sprinkle the cannabidiol product over the sugary treat before enjoying it according to your liking. The natural elements in cannabidiol correspond with your brain, letting it release the necessary
Have It In a Milkshake
Who doesn’t like milkshakes? With a drink as popular as water, you could have your sugary treat in a creamy, liquid form instead. Just have a glass of milkshake to yourself and enjoy mixing your cannabidiol concentrate or oil into it. From there, it’s just you and the chilled glass of sugary goodness. Stress? Be gone!
Enjoy It In Snacks
Lugging around perishables such as brownies or milkshakes during your travel doesn’t sound like a good idea. But you can carry cannabidiol snacks in your bag easily. From lozenges to almond bites, and from candy bars to lollipops, you could find a plethora of choices in terms of cannabidiol snacks. All you need to do is to visit a regulated cannabis dispensary and place your order accordingly.
Vape It Up
Another way to enjoy cannabidiol is by enjoying it in the form of a vape juice. This makes sure that you are not subjecting yourself to psychoactive reactions. But at the same time, you could enjoy the next best thing to smoking: vaping. Vape pens and specialized cannabidiol vape juices are widely available. This makes sure that you can enjoy these products at your comfort.
Use Topical Cannabidiol Products
You don’t even have to consume cannabidiol orally to enjoy its effects. Products such as CBD oil, lotion, cream and gel are now widely available. You can simply apply these everyday items to your skin and enjoy a release of cannabidiol into your system. There’s no special preparation required. But you would still feel like you did something special to be rewarded with the relaxation and relief that follows suit.
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5 Travel Necessary Items for Reducing International Flight Stress
Just the thought of being at an international flight for hours is troubling in itself.
What can you do while being airborne for so long? What if you get stressed? What if you need help in alleviating your anxiety? What if you are afraid that your existing mental health issues may flare up if you don’t have a calming activity to do?
Even if you surrounded by people from your social circle, it doesn’t guarantee that you wouldn’t feel stressed during your flight. As such, you need to make sure that you are taking help from different remedies at to keep your stress in check.
Organic products such as CBD oil go a long way in keeping your stress at bay; while electronic equipment such as a music player also works wonders. To help you manage your stress levels during such a situation, here are the Top 5 necessary items to take on your next international flight.
Don’t Forget a Music Player
Music therapy is one of the best stress relievers. When listening to your favorite tunes, the world seems like a better place, and the worries often tend to swim away.
As such, bringing a device such as an iPod Touch with you is a good idea. That way, you save yourself getting disturbed by the flight staff to turn the device off or to make sure if it’s on Airplane Mode again and again.
But if you don’t have an iPod Touch or a similar device, ensure to put your phone’s Airplane Mode on anyway. And remember to inform any flight attendants about your thoughtfulness prior to the trip. This would ensure that you could enjoy your music without getting disturbed repeatedly.
Grab a Book
A good book could prove to be a doorway to another dimension even if you are locked into your airplane seat for hours. This keeps your mind busy and helps you from falling into stressful thoughts.
If you pair that up with the music suggestion, then you have a recipe for success in-progress. Just make sure that you take a book that is short and simple so you can finish it before your flight lands.
Using CBD oil or related products within your flight could also make you quite calm, relaxed, and stress-free. Along with other benefits, it also keeps your muscles and body relaxed as well, which makes sure that you save yourself from jet lag.
Due to this relaxed state of mind, CBD also helps you sleep better so you could rest your way through the extended hours of your flight if you choose to do so.
Get a Sleep Mask
And if you wanted to sleep through the flight to reduce stress, make sure you are in a comfortable state to do so. A soft, plush, and easy to wear sleep mask can help you achieve this objective.
You can get a sleep mask in most convenience stores. To make sure that you get one which you are most comfortable wearing, get one that is the perfect size. Also ensure that it comes in a material that suits your comfort level to wear all the time.
Utilize Cloud Storage Before You Leave
Leaving a digital document on your home’s laptop or at the office computer could induce a lot of stress. To avoid that, invest in cloud storage before you board your plane.
This would have to come a few days before your flight, backup all of your important or frequently used data to the cloud. Doing so will not only ensure that you are not stressing out during your flight, but will also go a long way into saving your documents and photos over your trip.
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