Couples Travel – Why every couple should travel before marriage

| December 13, 2012 | 96 Comments

I have said it before and I will say it again. Before every couple settles down and gets married they should experience couples travel together for at least six months.

And I don’t mean just going somewhere relaxing and romantic.

Romance in San Sebastian Cole and Adela

I mean that you have to really travel together. You have to step outside your comfort zones together to see if you are going to go be able to go the distance.

Couples Travel

While we may not be married, we do know what 3+ years of couples travel will do to a relationship. There is nothing that will strengthen, or break, those intimate bonds of a couple in love quicker than couples travel.

Travelling as a couple can be one of the most rewarding experiences of any couples lives. It can also be one of the greatest challenges you will ever face.

Living out of each others back pockets for months on end in foreign countries can be tough work. You might not be able to speak the local language fluently which means that you often have only one another to talk to for a few days.

Or you might be driving 18,000 km across North America in a tiny car that is also your bedroom, kitchen and living room. There is no escape and nowhere to hide if you fight.

The silent treatment for 8 hours tends to get quite boring.

You have to be able to make it work.

Campervan, Couples Travel Tips, Cole, Camping

Yes we lived in that for 8 weeks.

So why should you travel as a couple before marriage?

Getting to know one another

During couples travel you quickly learn what makes another person tick. We have learnt a lot of life lessons while travelling as a couple and the ones that we stick to the most, are the ones that keep us both sane.

For example, I know that if Adela goes without a decent amount of sleep for a few days then she will be extremely cranky. And if I don’t get food on a regular basis then I am going to turn into something resembling the incredible hulk, just without the green tinge and muscles.

It is being able to spot those little changes in one another quickly that will help you overcome much larger hurdles later in life.

Cole and Adela, Couples Travel, Scooter in Tuscany

Good sleep + food = Happy couple

Facing your fears

Fears. We all have them. Whether it is a fear of heights or perhaps you suffer from claustrophobia, your partner can help you face those fears and overcome them.

We have a series on here about facing my fears where we deliberately put ourselves in situations that we are not 100% comfortable in. We think it helps us grow as individuals. But it also helps us grow as a couple.

When I suggested an adventure to go caving in Budapest, I knew that Adela would struggle with going underground. But she was willing to give it a crack. After we had walked just 50m underground, the door slammed shut behind us and Adela freaked out.

But knowing I was there to comfort her and help her out kept her calm until she got back to the surface. It of course didn’t stop me from carrying on afterwards and having an awesome adventure either!

Couples Travel - Caving in Budapest

Being stripped bare

Being stripped bare in front of someone you love is not the same as facing your fears. It is much worse than that. It is allowing someone to become so close to you that they see you at your most vulnerable.

Couples travel will open up your most vulnerable sides.

Imagine this…

One of you falls victim to a sneaky snake charmer throwing his pet snake around your neck. 12 hours later you can’t control the liquids coming out of either end of your body because of salmonella poisoning.

Marrakech Snake Charmer, Morocco, Cole, Couples Travel Tips

Not only do you wish that en-suite bathrooms with cowboy saloon style doors had never been invented. But this is also one time you don’t want to be alone.

For two weeks I was horrendously sick and lost a frightening 10 kgs. So far from home and without the support of my family I had only one person to rely on. Adela. Luckily she put up with the sounds, smells and stress, and supported me through it all.

For that I am so thankful because I will never forget how vulnerable I was and how she never exploited my vulnerability.

Perspective: It’s not all bad

Travelling as a couple is all about putting perspective on different events.

While you may become vulnerable, sick, frightened or angry, being there for one another is what counts to get you both through each situation. Because at the end of the day the good always outweighs the bad.

We never have to think too hard to remember the good times.

Indonesia Sunset Grim Lab

Sitting on a beach together watching the sunset. Drinking a coffee in a cute cafe in Paris or mountain biking in Canada. All of these experiences were made special because we did them together. They are treasured memories that we will share together forever.

Plus the bad can always be laughed at in the future.

In my opinion, if you can survive couples travel, you can survive anything. Including marriage.

Check out these Couples Travel Tips to learn how to survive travelling together. And if you want a “unique” Euro-trip adventure, you can always consider a holiday in Amsterdam to spice things up.

Have you travelled as a couple? Tell us about your experiences in the comments.

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Cole is one half of New Zealand's leading adventure travel blogging couple who have been wearing out their jandals around the world since 2009. He loves any adventure activities and anything to do with the water whether it is Surfing, Diving, Swimming, Snorkeling or just lounging nearby on the beach. You can follow Cole on Google+. Or consider following us via RSS Feed, Twitter, Facebook and subscribe to our Newsletter.

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  1. 100% agreed. Eric and I spent 4 years backpacking in through South Asia together starting just a few months after we met. We came back from that trip having spent more time together than most married couples do in their entire relationship. Traveling as a couple isn’t all romance and fairy dust, as you rightly point out, but it is illuminating and since married life is also noteably devoid of romance and fairy dust most of the time we concur: test drive your serious relationship out on the road before you sign on the dotted line.
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  2. Kirsten says:

    Hey guys. Firstly your blog is awesome and i have used your website loads over the last few.months. great for tips and ideas! this blog post is sooooooo true. i have been travelling with my fiance since april and it has definitely taught us loads more about each other even though we had been together for years already. we also did 8 weeks in a van and wow does that really test your personal space!!! Ultimately this trip has been fantastic and we still have few more months to go…..such good times and great memories that we will have forever.

    • Hey Kirsten thanks for leaving a comment :) So glad you have been reading our blog. Awesome to hear that you guys are enjoying your travels together. It can be VERY testing but well worth it in the end!

  3. Mich says:

    Awwwwwww that is cayuuute cole :)

  4. T-Dog says:

    Cole,
    Great article. What is the feedback from Steph and Bron?
    Tristan

  5. bronwen says:

    Whoa yes I can totally relate to your blog and words of wisdom! I remember some of those silent treatment episodes (from me) and on a couple occasions overseas it did spoil our sightseeing. We have also spent 10 months in a 6m bus in NZ – brought us very close. Good luck together with your continued travels, love and friendship.

  6. I’ve been wanting to write about this topic for a while, you just took the words out of my mouth! I’ve been with my partner for 6 years now, and we lived as expats for the better part of it. And we got married last year! We survived a whole year in a 18m2 studio flat in London – we always said that if we got through that, we’d get through ANYTHING :)
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    • We have been lucky that we have been based in Edinburgh so our room is actually massive and probably half the price of those in London ;) Congrats on the marriage last year and well done sticking together through it all!

  7. Edna says:

    Well said Cole! My fiancé and I met as roommates then immediately started traveling around Southeast Asia for a year while keeping Singapore as our base, so it was sink or swim right off the bat. We knew after we happily navigated through all the travel and living together that we could make it no matter what (including now being in a long-distance relationship that’s lasted over a year and might last a few more)!
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    • Cheers Edna :) Congrats on sticking at it over long distance! It is always hard. Adela and I did it for our first year too BEFORE we started travelling. So must be doing something right haha.

  8. Vera says:

    Love your article – and agree very much!! Although, admittedly, Loz is naturally happy, while it’s always and only me who gets cranky when sleep-deprivated or hungry. Or loads of other things. Someone has to wear the grumpy-pants in the relation-ship, and I sacrificed myself and committed to it a 100%! Oh yes. Anyway, great article, and LOVE IS ALL YOU NEED:)! Apart from sleep and food, maybe;).
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  9. Lane says:

    We have said the same thing. If you cannot take off six months, at least take several trips — long weekends, road trips, cruises or whatever. Mix it up. Nothing tests a relationship like traveling together, rolling with the unexpected and seeing how each other reacts in various situations.
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    • Good point Lane! You have to be in different situations to test what works and what doesn’t in a relationship. Just going to luxury resorts together for 6 months probably won’t test you much ;)

  10. Pete says:

    We did it backwards, as we married young and then found out we both had the passion to see the world. You’re right that it will either strengthen or create serious challenges. For us it has only brought us closer. Sure there are days where we annoy eachother, but that is expected when you’re with the other person 24/7. We’ve been together 13 years and it still feels like our honeymoon. Keep it strong you guys, hopefully to finally meet you at ITB?
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    • Not sure about ITB yet because we are spending the winter in the French Alps. Hopefully we get to see you guys! Congrats on going for 13 years too. You guys prove that long term travel definitely works.

  11. This might be your best advice yet:) When MJ and I were about 4 months into our relationship, I took her to Europe to test how well we could travel together. It was a deal breaker if it didn’t work so I got it out of the way early. Thankfully, she passed the test, although she would say I did the same:)
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  12. Cheryl says:

    You guys are awesome! Such a wonderful post and wishing you many more years on the road together. :)
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  13. I whole-heartedly agree! My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now, and have taken two trips together (to Rarotonga and Thailand) and next year start our longterm journey of driving across Canada from Vancouver to Halifax together. I can completely agree, especially with the vulnerability and being stripped bare while traveling – I got food poisoning in Thailand the night before we left, and that was the kind of situation that taught me Thom and I could handle anything curveball life will throw at us.

    Awesome work :)
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  14. haha I have had many a relationship dissolve after travelling with them for extended periods of time… luckily I eventually found a person I can stand for long periods of time :D
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  15. Rachel says:

    What you’re going to experience with your partner when you get married are the same or almost the same, or worse things you could experience when you travel together. Because living outside of your comfort zone will truly show the real you. If you’re able to accept and lived thru your bad times when traveling, you’re in doubt will get to do the same when you bind yourselves together for the rest of your lives. I’m not married yet, but this is also what I’m trying to do

    • Totally agree with you Rachel! Travelling can be VERY stressful and lots of people don’t realise that when they first set out together. Good luck with looking in that special someone :)

  16. Hi Cole, Traveling together before marriage is healthy for the mental outlook of young people? It also makes couples to know each other better.

  17. Traveling together is the ultimate test.
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  18. Jennifer says:

    Tim and I were on the verge of divorce back in 2007. We stuck it out and moved to Europe in 2009. I was so scared to make the move because once we got to Italy, we would literally have no one but each other. Travel has taught us so much about ourselves, each other, and our marriage. It has brought us closer together and the constant tests of dealing with things outside of comfort zones has only taught us how to better communicate, have more patience, and compromise.
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  19. Amanda says:

    Yeah, forget pre-marriage counseling or living together first – traveling together is the real test for a relationship! It’s definitely going to be a requirement in any future long-term relationships I find myself in.

    I’m glad it’s only strengthened your relationship – that seems to be the case for a lot of traveling couples, which is so nice to hear about.
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  20. Definitely a great way to get to know strengths, weaknesses, likes, and dislikes. Nothing like being stripped bare on the road in front of your partner (I mean this travel metaphorically speaking of course)! :)
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  21. Josie says:

    Hey Cole,
    Totally agree — to the point that travel should be required before marriage! It’s definitely a deal-breaker or deal-maker.
    Three months after meeting Conrad, my eventual husband, he asked me to go to Australia with him. We both knew the risk. What if we ended up hating each other after the first three days? We would be stuck for the next month with each other. But we took that leap of faith and soon discovered that traveling brings out the best in both of us. Now we live a house sitting lifestyle, traveling the world.
    I have traveled with girlfriends in the past and it turned into a disaster. Just because you get along with someone, doesn’t mean you travel well with them. When traveling you must have the same rhythm as your partner — the same pace, appetite, sleep needs, etc. It gets finely tuned as you travel and takes a great deal of compromise.
    You guys sound really cute and “together,” as they say. Thanks for a fun post.
    I wish you happy and safe travels always and all ways.
    ~Josie
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    • Brilliant comment Josie! I find the same thing with some of the friends I have travelled with too. It is kind of like living with a friend I reckon. Looks good on paper and then as soon as you start being in each others back pockets all the time, it can be really hard.
      Thanks for stopping by and appreciate the nice comment :)

  22. Great tips and insights. I 100% agree with you. I’ve traveled with two partners. The first was scared to walk around the block in India without a guide and his preferred travel destinations were all-inclusive resorts. I didn’t know it then, but that should have been a huge flashing warning light to run far and fast. Unfortunately, I didn’t pay attention soon enough and it ended in divorce. My second partner not only welcomes the unknown but also helps me become a better person by encouraging me to face my fear. I truly found my Mr. Love.
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  23. Candice says:

    I couldn’t agree more! I traveled for around 4 months with my now-husband before we got married, and it was a confirmation for me that he was the one:-)
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  24. what a lovely post, Cole. :) Seems there’s no better test for a relationship than the test of extended travel. It’s amazing to me, still, how much one’s attitude can change towards a person on the road! Thanks for writing this, it’s good to be reminded of it.
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  25. I’m taking notes. Any future Mrs. Karsten will have to pass the “travel test”. :)
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  26. ieishah says:

    My partner Vin and I met in an airport, so I guess you could say we were destined to travel. In the last year we’ve traveled about 8 countries together, never a dull moment! My favorite this year has to be our epic 24 hour journey from Greece to Germany. By the 8th leg of the trip (no joke), I felt like I could jump in front of a bus. But we were laughing so much, I also knew then that we could really make it as a couple. I co-sign 1000%. Love this post!!

    • That is awesome that you met in an airport! Surely a sign :) Congrats on still being able to smile after your 24 hour journey. We have had a few tense moments when travelling long distances together haha. Always pull through though.

  27. AGREED! Great post!
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  28. Loving this post, guys! My partner and I will be travelling in the US together for 1 month next March, which will be the first time we’ve spent together that hasn’t been in one of our home countries. By that point we’ll have been together for just over a couple of years so I think we have each other pretty well figured out….but I’m anticipating a few surprises (and hopefully no 8 hour silent treatments…that sounds awful!)

    You and Adela sound exactly like my partner and I in terms of being extremely cranky with no sleep (him) and the Hulk without the green tinge and bulging muscles in the absence of food (me).
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  29. Lianne says:

    I just read a bit on this site, and got to this page. While I do agree with many points you make, I actually have a few counterpoints. Firstly, I think it is a bit presumptuous to assume all couples can travel, particularly for six months. Not everybody has the money etc. Also, I think there are many other ways to really get to know each other and “test” your relationship. Before anyone starts saying I can’t know because I haven’t traveled as a couple, that isn’t true. My partner of 3 1/2 years and I have done a lot of travel together, actually. He is Australian and I am American, and we live together in New Zealand now. However, when we travel, those are the relaxing fun times for us. The real testing/trying times for us have been in everyday life, during which there have been many things that are far tougher than anything we have ever faced while traveling, like both our mothers dying within days of each other. I am not trying to seek out sympathy here, I simply want to demonstrate my point that every couple has a different experience and can get to know all the good, bad, wonderful, and difficult about each other in their own way.

    In short, this is an interesting read, but I think it gives a bit of an impression that this is the magic answer for every couple, when indeed I don’t think that’s true.

    • Hey Lianne.
      Firstly, thanks so much for stopping by our blog and commenting. We really appreciated it. And secondly, great counterpoints! Totally agree that not everybody can travel. Let me be the first to point out that we are not rich either. We saved our butts off to travel the world and that is why we still have to work while we are travelling. It does allow us to travel slower though as we spend more time in each place we visit until we can afford to move on again. We think that lots of people do have the opportunity to travel though if they decide they want to if they cut spending etc.
      To be honest, it was a little tongue in cheek this post and we definitely agree that a lot of couples are EXTREMELY happy together and they don’t travel. Travelling is not for everyone and even my brother who is younger than me and married doesn’t have as great a desire to travel as I do. Luckily my brother found the perfect girl and they knew each other BEFORE they got married. I guess that was the point I was trying to make. It seems some people get married now before they truly know someone. And travelling is a great way to peel back those layers so to speak!
      So glad that you guys get to enjoy your holidays together and hope you have some wonderful trips this year!
      Thanks again and hope you continue reading along with us :)
      Regards,
      Cole and Adela

  30. Spencer says:

    I couldn’t agree with you more. If you can travel together then you are definitely marriage material!

  31. Jane says:

    Wonderful post! Great for anyone who wants to travel as a couple!

  32. Michael says:

    I am totally agree with your point. Traveling can help to know more about the living behavior of each other. By the way, it’s the best time for the couple to discover more about each other as well before marriage.

  33. ANGLO/Dale says:

    Four months into it, we’re beginning to understand a little more about each other, and somethings that we can’t understand all together, so now we’d agree with you one hundred percent.
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  34. I never thought about this type of test for a relationship :) It makes sense and I think that I’ll try it. Thanks for writing it! Happy 2013!
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  35. So true! Years ago, I spent three nights and four days on a tiny felucca with my boyfriend of six months. He was very lucky he didn’t ‘accidentally’ drown in the Nile. That didn’t last long at all. My next boyfriend, we went travelling six weeks after getting together… 13 years later we’re still together. Definitely the best test of a relationship.
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  36. Turtle says:

    Beautiful post!
    I understand completely. I have seen myself at my most vulnerable. I have supported myself through those difficult situations. I have talked to myself for days on end.
    I think I am ready to marry myself.
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  37. Great insights.

    I’ve been together with Cris (she’s helping me manage Marginal Boundaries starting in February of 2013) for two years now, but we still haven’t traveled together. I’ve been hunkered down for the past couple of years growing the community and getting the social media racket going after writing all the guidebooks/etc., and now that’s the next thing on our agenda in 2014.

    Right now we are busy with the retreat in March, April and May here in Cancun, but if we end up going to Bulgaria or Colombia in the summer, that will be our first “travel together” opportunity. Otherwise, we’ll be pushing off our first “couple adventure” until 2014, at which point we’ll be going to Rio de Janeiro to run retreats and write the next “Live Like a Local” guidebook + hang out for the World Cup + Summer Olympics.

    I think more than anything else, traveling as a couple is a great way to stress-test the relationship and see if there are any hitches. It’s also a great way to get to know the other person under “out of the comfort zone” conditions, when there are things completely out of your control that you both have to deal with and overcome as a team.

    Team building is one of the most powerful elements of a great working/emotional relationship…and if you can work through stressful times together, there’s nothing you cannot accomplish :)

    Great post!

    I can also second the whole “vulnerability” thing. While it didn’t happen while traveling, I had a horrific parasite infection in 2012 that rendered me bed-ridden for 6 weeks, during which I couldn’t sleep, lost 10 kilos, was in the hospital getting tests run (thinking it was bleeding ulcers, stomach cancer or something else before we finally figured out what the issue was)…and she was there with me the entire time, taking care of me/etc.

    When someone works through that sort of event with you, as a team…it builds a bond that merely spending time together cannot compete with.
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    • Sounds like your travel plans for 2014 will be awesome! I am sure you will be fine especially since you guys have done so much together already. I probably should have made the post read: “Travel or go into business together”! Because I am sure both are just as testing.

  38. Kristy says:

    I find this article very heart warming and interesting to read especially your struggle as a couple while travelling. I also feel very inspired to travel with my boyfriend and can’t wait what will happen to our adventure that will test our relationship through thick or thin that will curve great memories that will definitely we will cherish forever!

  39. Kelly says:

    I absolutely love this post and find your entire blog inspiring. Next month my boyfriend and I will be setting off on our travels around the world together. From one extreme to the other, we will be going from an ‘army life’ relationship where we spent most of our time apart for the last 3 years to living in each others pockets every moment of every day. I know there are going to be lots of tough moments and challenges ahead but SO many amazing moments to outweigh those and I hope that we can strive together in making our dreams come true, as you guys have.
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    • Glad you love it Kelly and thanks for commenting! Good luck for your travels with your boyfriend and I am sure you guys will be fine :) You are definitely right that the beautiful moments will far outweigh those fights you have every now and then.

  40. Esther says:

    True, and the more difficult the trip, the best. Lol, I’m still waiting for that with my boyfriend, I think the sky trip isn’t enough ;)

    I’m a tour guide and one thing that I love is meting very different people every day, couples are the best.
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  41. Emma says:

    Hi Cole and Adela, Great blog and wonderful post!!

    There is a lot of advice in there and will deftly take them into consideration.. We are going travelling for 5months very soon and I must admit I am a bit worried! Not in a bad way of course!! But my partner is a bit more “active” than me – I do like to take my time etc… I am more relaxed about things!

    Anywoo, it was good to read you guys and will deftly follow you!

    Next Stop New Zealand… :)
    Emma
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    • You guys will have a great time and will quickly find a balance that works for both of you when you are travelling. And who knows, you may even discover you are a lot more active than you think ;D

      Have a great time and let us know how it goes in New Zealand Emma!

  42. Antje Jordon says:

    What honestly moved you to write “Couples Travel – Why every couple should travel before marriage”? I personallyhonestly adored the post! Thanks for your effort.

  43. Hi guys. Love this post. My hubby and I have been full time traveling for 12 months so far. I think traveling together is the best way to really get to know each other. Even though we have been together for 14 years, over the last 12 months our relationship has strengthened and grown beyond what we ever thought possible.
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  44. Alexandra says:

    This post rings so true to me! I met my boyfriend on the road and 1 1/2 years later we are still going strong. Although I must admit funnily enough we are better on the road than standing still. I would never imagine marrying someone I hadn’t traveled with. I firmly believe it is the true test.
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  45. I like the idea of travelling together before marriage. Seems like a good idea. You never know what you will discover about the other half, something you like or don’t like. At the same time, you never know it might bring you closer together. Brilliant idea.
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  46. ryoawesome says:

    i love this post. i so can relate! and it is true, couples should travel together before getting married. i was the other half of a traveling couple last year and i am now a solo traveler. no, we didn’t break up, we just have 2 different destinations this year and we’ll catch up with each other in a month. traveling together does put a lot of test in the relationship and it will either bring out the best or the worst in the partnership. and every couple will have the chance to get to know each other better on the road. all the best to traveling couples!
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    • Sounds like our relationship at the moment. We are taking a break as well because we both wanted slightly different things. I am in Africa and Adela is in Edinburgh still. Hopefully crossing paths in SE Asia in the middle of the year :)

  47. Samantha says:

    This is a great post! And I agree 100%, traveling with your partner teaches plenty about yourself and your significant other. My boyfriend and I aren’t married yet but we planning to soon in the future and we have gone on many trips together. We were long distance for two years so the only way to see each other was to travel! It makes you realize very fast if you can truly get along with that person or not. It’s interesting how some travel pairs can work well together but not romantically and vice versa.
    Just found your blog by googling “top travel blogs to look for in 2013″ so keep up the good work! Can’t wait to read more. :)
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  48. Traveling as a couple does make it quicker to find out if you are compatible. In 6 months on the road you will know someone better (for better or worse) than you would in 10 years of ‘normal’ married life.

    I remember in our past life we would only spend one full day together a week. The other days we would spend a few hours together. Now it’s completely opposite. 24/7!
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