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Welcome to New Zealand – A Life Update

Where have I been? Well I have moved back to New Zealand and this is my little life update to let you know what is happening with the Four Jandals Blog.

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Skydiving in Nairobi

I would love to blame my lack of updates on this blog on something awesome. Unfortunately I have just been really slack.

Well to give me some credit, I have just moved to New Zealand so it has been pretty hectic catching up with family and friends in the last three weeks! I have been travelling all over the North Island of New Zealand and have finally managed to settle in Wellington.

Thorndon to Tararuas HDR

So what I am doing back home in New Zealand?

Well, after 3 years, 10 months, 2 weeks and 1 day of travelling to 44 countries, I was exhausted.

2013 has been one of the toughest, but strangely exciting times of my life. When I started this blog I called it Four Jandals because at the time Adela and I were still together. Unfortunately, Four Jandals became Two Jandals in April and we broke up. Some readers don’t seem to notice even though it is one of my most popular posts. But it isn’t something I am too public about either.

Luckily we are still friends and talking to one another. I would have hated to throw away everything after nearly 5 years together.

Leopard in Tree Lake Nukuru Game Park Kenya

Since April I have travelled nearly the length of Africa from Nairobi to Cape Town overland. I also spent 6 weeks in Thailand frantically trying to catch up on all the work I had neglected over those three months in Africa.

Why have I returned home?

Everyone keeps asking me why I have returned and why would I want to? Quite simply the answer is because I wanted to. I was always going to return to New Zealand. It is my home and the one true place where I have always been 100% happy.

Plus I have missed so many important events over the last 4 years because of travelling. Family birthdays, friends weddings, births and deaths. All missed because I was selfishly travelling the world.

I don’t regret what I did for an instant. But I am so glad that I am finally home. It is time to make a fresh start. A time to laugh, love and live again.

So what am I doing?

Luckily I have picked up a job really quickly and I am working for a website in New Zealand as one of their content creators here in Wellington. Basically I get to help promote New Zealand brands and businesses online. Something that I am really passionate about because there is a lack of small local companies online in New Zealand.

Plus it allows me to write on a daily basis (probably one of the reasons I have been so slack here on the blog) and follow my dreams.

Skydiving in Nairobi

What about the blog?

Well this is far from being my last blog post.

I still have hundreds of stories to share with you. I have hardy scratched the surfaces of all my experiences, let alone edit my thousands of photos that I have accumulated over the past 4 years.

However, while I don’t expect to stop writing or blogging, you may see a shift in the sort of content that I do write. As well as a re-branding over the next couple of months. Obviously Four Jandals has been very successful, but it is a bit hard to call myself “Four” when I only have Two Jandals.

So for now nothing is changing. But I wanted to write this update as an apology to you because I have been so slack. As always I am extremely thankful for my followers on social media and my readers of this blog. I would not be where I am today without you. So thank you, thank you, thank you.

Safe Travels,

Cole

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  1. Alex | Partial Parallax

    October 4, 2013 at 10:05 AM

    Sounds like it has been a rather busy and life changing year so far but glad you are enjoying life back home! It will be interesting to read up on how you settle back into life in your home country again after such a long time on the road. Best of luck entering a new and exciting part of your life!

    • Cole Burmester

      October 4, 2013 at 10:10 AM

      Thank you Alex. Going to be a big transition for sure, but it’s not like I am giving up travelling. There is so much more of my own country I still need to explore!

  2. Rose Davidson Leech

    October 4, 2013 at 3:02 PM

    Oh wow, Sounds like a busy old time for you! bet its lovely to be home and to see all your family.
    I am actually moving to New Zealand myself too, In 7 weeks time! I’m from England so its a big step but I can’t WAIT
    I’ve never been to New Zealand but I met my boyfriend on his 2 year visa in England and, obviously he had to move home so I’m following.
    Good luck with everything xo

    • Cole Burmester

      October 5, 2013 at 2:57 AM

      Thanks 🙂
      Awesome that you are moving over here Rose. I am sure you will love it! Good luck and maybe I will see you around.

  3. bronwen burmester

    October 5, 2013 at 4:39 AM

    Its awesome to have you back home in NZ. One comment is that you were not selfish for travelling the world Cole! Definitely not. Travelling and experiencing the people and cultures in our world is one of the best ways to grow as a person and appreciate others. And we knew you were thinking of us. THANK GOODNESS FOR SKYPE! You are the lovely person that you are today with all those experiences.

  4. Beth

    October 6, 2013 at 8:22 AM

    No need to apologize for being slack! It seems you’ve had a lot going on and I’m sure all your readers understand.

    Glad to see you’ve been able to land a job you’re passionate about. Can’t wait to read about this new chapter of your life!

    • Cole Burmester

      October 7, 2013 at 10:58 AM

      Cheers Beth! Can’t wait to see what the next chapter brings.

  5. Kristy of Family Visa

    October 7, 2013 at 9:16 AM

    I am glad that you landed a job that you really, really like Cole. I will be still your avid reader no matter what happen even if there’s re-branding of the website or not.

  6. Eitan Herman | Places to visit

    October 7, 2013 at 7:42 PM

    It would be interesting to read how well you settle back to life in the home country again after a long time you like on the road. Best of luck to enter the part new and exciting in Thank you for sharing and a great article although I’m new in your famous blog.I won a lot of knowledge here, I hope you will make in the future.Happy life!Places to go,

  7. Wade

    October 8, 2013 at 11:40 PM

    Seriously cannot wait to visit NZ during the year long RTW adventure with my lady! Glad I stumbled upon your website. We our focusing the majority of our adventure travel events in NZ…which clearly lines up with what you’re doing on your blog. Keep up the great work!

  8. Abby Ang

    October 9, 2013 at 7:08 AM

    Hello there!

    Thank you very much for sharing this post. New Zealand is such a nice place. I would love to visit that place together with my family someday.

    -Abby

  9. Jeff

    October 9, 2013 at 4:40 PM

    East or West, home is the best. Its interesting to start a new life and am glad you have landed a new job. You got support from your mum and us your fan. I can’t wait to learn more about New Zealand.

  10. Megan

    October 9, 2013 at 8:52 PM

    Home is home and I’m glad you’re there. I’m sorry that things didn’t work out exactly how you planned. I scrolled back through your earlier posts…looked at all the incredible things you saw, did and learned along the way, personally and professionally…certainly things to treasure for a lifetime. I’m excited about your new ventures and look forward to seeing what comes next. Best, Megan

  11. Chris & Angela Tieland to Thailand

    October 17, 2013 at 3:33 PM

    Good luck in New Zealand. It was great meeting you in Chiang Mai. Maybe we’ll catch up the next time you’re in town. Take care!

  12. Rory

    October 22, 2013 at 6:24 PM

    Good luck Cole with your move- was great to see you again and have you around in Edinburgh over the last few years. Looking forward to your banter in January.

    • Cole Burmester

      October 23, 2013 at 2:52 PM

      Thanks so much bro means a lot! Definitely miss you guys and looking forward to January. Just wish it wasn’t only for a couple of weeks!

  13. Meghan

    April 6, 2014 at 12:43 PM

    Recently got back to Canada, and feeling much the same way!

  14. Bess

    June 26, 2017 at 8:19 AM

    If you would like to increase your experience only keep visiting this website and be updated with the most up-to-date gossip posted here.

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From Four Jandals to Two Jandals

It sucks to be breaking up while travelling, but sometimes it is a necessity. Find out why we are going from Four Jandals to Two Jandals.

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Romance in San Sebastian Cole and Adela

Usually we don’t write too many personal posts as we know you like to to read about our adventure travels, rather than our lives. But we thought it only fair to give you a bit of an update on what is happening in the lives of Four Jandals. Because if you have been reading our adventure travel blog for the last 4 – 5 months, you have probably been very, very confused about what is going on.

Obviously things haven’t been smooth sailing for us.

In December, we were meant to head off to France together and work for the winter near La Rosiere ski resort. This idea fell apart when Adela realised she didn’t want to leave Edinburgh just yet. She was afraid to travel. I was left stranded in France so made the decision to return to Scotland as well in January.

Most romantic places in the world

This was where we were meant to spend the winter

In March, I made the decision to do a little soul searching by walking the Camino de Santiago. And while I injured myself prematurely and had to stop, it did help clear my mind and change my perspective on a few things.

I realised that I have been stuck in a rut.

I call myself a traveller and an adventurer, yet I was stuck in Edinburgh and not being able to pursue my passions. I love Edinburgh, but the Scottish weather and lifestyle go against the grain of how I like to live my life. I need to be near the sea with warm weather and adventures galore on my doorstep.

So I had to make one of the hardest decisions of my life.

After 5 and a half years, Adela and I are going on a break. And at the moment we don’t know if it will become permanent or not. We will keep our international bank accounts, visas and various other bits and pieces that you acquire when travelling as a couple. But we just won’t be together for at least 3 months. We will also keep in touch and hope to rekindle something in the future.

This change was necessary for both of us.

Adventure Travel Blog, Cole and Adela Photos

Breaking up while travelling…

It is strange because only a few months ago I wrote our most popular post ever about “Why every couple should travel before marriage“. But as in all things travel related, changes are inevitable.

We have just spent a wonderful week together exploring Iceland and now we are parting ways. She is going back to Edinburgh and I am off to Africa. For 75 days I will join an overland tour from Nairobi to Cape Town with Oasis Overland.

I am in two minds at the moment. On one hand I am devastated that I have had to walk away from such an amazing girl. But I am also excited that I am heading off on a new adventure and that I have the chance to explore a completely new part of the world.

I will outline my full trip in an upcoming post, but it is fair to say that the next 2 months will be jam-packed full of adventures. Including, learning to kite-surf in Kenya, hiking to see Gorillas, safaris, camping, white water rafting, bungee jumping, shark cage diving and much, much more.

So what is next for Four Jandals?

Well, in regards to our blog and what you read on here, not a lot will change to be honest. For the last 6 months I have been doing 95% of the writing, social media updates and photography. So the content, adventures and stories won’t change.

But there is likely to be a small decline in talking about couples travel tips and other couples adventures until we figure out exactly what is happening.

So for now, thanks as always for reading our blog and all that I ask from you is that you wish us both good luck on our next personal travel adventures, and I hope you continue to read along with me as I explore Africa!

Reader Questions: Have you ever broken up while travelling? Or right before a travel adventure? How did you handle it?

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